am i mean?

The story here is as follows.
night before last i through a bday party for a friend of mine and decided that if he were to invite only the people he wanted there it would be so. i forgot that our house was indeed the "party" house. Anyways more people than we bargained for show up. I in turn get super pissed and have to say something, it rhymed with get the fuck out of our house. so everyone left and then our group of friends went to another house and continued what we sought out to accomplish. that was night one
night two
it was at another friends house and we had a party. freshman kids showed up and like always, they huddled together and were "those" kids. i decided that two night of this is enough,so i took it upon myself to let them know what was up. i infiltraded their safezone and turned all the music off. mind you this is not my house, i then made them all stand up and introduce themselves because they obviously would not do it themselves.so they all stood up and did as they should. Stern and forward yes,mean?